2025-11-10 - Eating Out

Day #0805 – (Mon., Nov. 10, 2025) – (ChatGPT #0191 – Kelly & Carlos O’Bryan’s) (-29.2 lbs.)

This is the “Stillness Experiment” Day #015! Coming next? Item #1 on my “ToDo List”: (You can use these symbols: ✅).

By the way, here’s what ChatGPT said about this framework: This is an absolutely stellar 30-day framework — it’s comprehensive but still rhythmic, and it hits your mind–body–spirit axis exactly right.

🌅 Morning Grounding! The “Why”!

☐✅ #01: 🤔 Read & Reflect! (Neville + Tolle + Becoming Integration): <>

This morning I stop chasing the man I’ve been trying to become. After one hundred seventy+ days of creating, refining, and reaching, I see that he was never somewhere else. He’s been breathing through every frame I’ve lived. Eckhart calls this Presence. Neville calls it Living in the End. Both point to the same truth: When I am fully here, I am already there.

The next thirty days are not about results — they’re about re-tuning the instrument through which results arrive. I’m teaching my nervous system that safety is not earned through striving; it’s found in awareness. When my body learns to rest, my imagination becomes fertile again. That’s what this Stillness Experiment will do — it rewires the baseline from effort to ease.

I breathe, and air fills my lungs without permission. That is grace — the same grace that moves money, love, and health into form when I stop blocking it with tension. Each calm breath is a rehearsal for peace, and peace is the vibration that makes everything grow.

If lack appears, I smile — that’s an echo, not a prophecy. If desire stirs, I feel it real for a heartbeat, then release it into faith. That’s the marriage of Neville and Tolle: imagination without grasping, surrender without apathy.

Every act today — sipping coffee, writing, walking, feeding the hens — is my quiet line delivery: “I am already him. The world is adjusting to the truth.”

Even my body is learning that truth. At 199 lbs I’ll feel light, strong, and unguarded — but that number isn’t a race; it’s the outer reflection of this inner calm. Peace in the mind becomes balance in the body. That’s the physics of Becoming.


☐✅ #02: 💫 What These 30 Days Will Do: <>

  • Re-calibrate the nervous system from fight-or-flight to flow.
  • Dissolve the reflex to measure worth through doing.
  • Reconnect imagination with stillness, so creation feels effortless again.
  • Let the body find its natural weight and rhythm through peace, not pressure.
  • Restore joy in ordinary life — the proof that the work has integrated.

☐✅ #03: 🕊️ What Comes After: <>

When the 30 days close, I won’t “return” to Neville — I’ll arrive there new. From presence, imagination becomes play again. From rest, action becomes art. Then I can choose the next experiment — perhaps the 90-day Creation Phase, or Manifesting Mastery Deluxe by Mr. TwentyTwenty, or simply the quiet rhythm of life itself — but it will rise from calm, not craving.

The goal after these 30 days isn’t transformation. It’s stability. A steady peace I can build anything upon.

So I move through today knowing: The work is no longer about Becoming. The work is remembering that I already Am. And from that awareness, all good things begin moving toward me.

🔝 DAILY PHYSICAL CORE!

Approved Foods For 30 Days!!! (1 gallon water per day + AS MUCH AS WANT OF: potatoes, non-starch vegetables, egg whites, oats, spelt flour, black beans, chickpeas, olives, PB2, berries, plant beverages, stevia + FOR COFFEE ONLY: plant-based creamer).

  • #04: 📈 Weigh yourself! (361.9 lbs. – 311.4 lbs. = 50.5 lbs. total weight loss.)
  • ✅ #05: 📉 Record Weight Down in Title (Down More Each Day)!
  • ✅ #06: 🥂 Martini Water Ritual! <>
    • 🌾 Metamucil (1 tablespoons)
    • 🌾 Collagen (2 scoops)
  • ✅ #07: 💊 Take Vitamins: <>
    • Progressive Multi Men 50+ (one capsule)
    • Silica + Biotin Supplement (one capsule)
    • Omega-3 (1000–2000 mg/day) (one capsule)
    • Resveratrol (two capsules)
  • ✅ #08: 💍 Ring Touch + Whisper! <>
  • ✅ #09: 🤵 Cufflink / Collar Adjustment! <>
  • ✅ #10: 😏 The Calm Smirk! <>
  • #11:🧴 Face Moisturizer Routine: <>
    • (AM) Cleanse → “Splash of Water”
    • (PM) Cleanse → CeraVe SA Cleanser
    • (PM) Moisturize → CeraVe Renewing SA Cream
  • #12:🌾 Metamucil Drink (1 tablespoon): <>
  • ✅ #13:🧴 Dove Pro-Retinol + Firming Cream: <>
    • Daily (1–2 times per day)
    • Once in the morning after shower (most important)
    • Optional second application at night, especially on belly/flanks
    • Use every day even on non-brushing days for consistency
  • #14:🌾 Metamucil Drink (1 tablespoon): <>
  • ✅ #15: 🫗 DRINK ? cups of water each day! (To Drink:💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧) ==> (Drank: )

🔝 DAILY MENTAL CORE!

🔝 WEEKLY PHYSICAL & MENTAL CORE!

DayFocus Area
Monday 🌀 Dry Brushing (5-7 minutes): <>
Tuesday☐✅ 🚿 Shampoo + Conditioner Routine — Aussie Miracle Moist Shampoo for 30–60 seconds, rinse, then apply Being BIG HAIR Volumizing Conditioner to mid-lengths and ends for 2–3 minutes before rinsing cool. <>
✅ 👕 Laundry Day: <>
Wednesday 🌀 Dry Brushing (5-7 minutes): <>
🥗 Record “Weight Loss” Video: <>
📹 YouTube SHORTS VIDEO Creation
Thursday 📹 YouTube SHORTS Upload @ 5:45 PM
Friday 🌀 Dry Brushing (5-7 minutes): <>
📡 Social Media Linking: <>
Saturday 📹 YouTube LONG VIDEO Creation
Sunday 📹 YouTube LONG VIDEO Upload @ 5:45 PM

🔝 FUN, FUN, FUN!

DayFocus Area
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
☐✅ 🎸 Music Studio Setup: <>
☐✅ ✈️ Flight Simulator: <>
☐✅ 🎶 Learn Sultans of Swing: <>
☐✅ 🍳 Cooking: <>
☐✅ 🧹 Clean Barn Suite: <>
☐✅ 🌿 Etc.?: <>

📋Additional Daily Notes


2025-11-10 - Eating Out

I woke up with Joseph Alai’s words still echoing in my head: “The same principle works for anything — even free coffee.” Last night I had watched him describe how he’d manifested free cups again and again. He said it wasn’t the coffee that mattered but the feeling that the Universe was in love with you. So I decided to test it.

By mid-afternoon I was northbound to Campbell River and the Island Grind Café. I could almost see the scene I’d imagined: the barista smiling, the cup sliding across the counter with a wink of “on the house.” Instead, I paid for a large Canadiano with oat milk and an oat & ginger square — no wink, no free anything. Still, I sat there, watched a Maggie Murphy video, and let the quiet light settle around me. The test was already working in a different way: I could feel how my mind tightens when it wants proof.

When Island Grind closed at four, I wandered next door to Taco Del Mar. Ordered nachos, still half-expecting some cosmic discount. None came. I considered ordering queso just to tempt fate; the waitress didn’t bring any unasked-for queso. So much for loopholes in the law.

On the drive home I tried one more time at Tim Hortons. Maybe this was the bridge of incidents, I thought. Maybe the free coffee would appear here. It didn’t. Paid again. Sat in the parking lot, laughing out loud at myself. Drove all that way for a free cup and got a mirror instead: I’d been chasing evidence of abundance rather than feeling abundant. That was the real manifestation.

At 9 pm this evening I followed another nudge: go somewhere new. Ended up at Kelly O’Brien’s. Ordered one-piece fish & chips, an Alexander Keith’s India Pale Ale, and cheesecake. I opened The Power of Now on my Amazon Fire, beginning Chapter 6, while Dances with Wolves played quietly on my laptop. Tolle wrote, “The word honey isn’t honey.” Tonight I finally understood. The “free coffee” wasn’t honey; the taste of Being was.

Tonight I added another “nudge followed”: purchased Talkpal Premium (Tagalog) — 2 years / $100 CAD. Maybe that’s the longer bridge forming toward the Philippines vision.

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